OK i HAVE SAT BACK AND LET MY NAME BE SLANDERED ABOUT HERE. YES I DID SHARE WHO ESME WAS BUT I SHARED AS I WAS WORRIED ABOUT HER. SHE WAS VERY ARCTIC THAT DAY AND I PERSONALLY FELT SHE NEED TO SPEAK TO SOMEONE IN THE FLESH OR OVER THE PHONE. I REACHED OUT TO FOKE I THOUGHT WHO WOULD KNOW HER TO GET HELP THAT WEEKEND . SHE THANKED ME FOR THIS ON THE FORUM AND IN PM.WOULD I DO IT AGAIN YES, AS MYS
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> Some of the others are still thinking of coming on > but the phone hacking is putting them off. > Thank you folks. > Mirmac If it's regarding the error message what we get at times if you hit post something to often it's a glitch on this site. I ZCan assure you this site's safe from hackers as the anti hacking software my hubby has on our computers is scary
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After a very busy week this week emotionally and physically reliving things . And some things what I have heard the pass 72hrs think it's time I now bow out from things here for a wee while and concentrate on things I'm working on in background get solved one way or other. Please all keep talking and helping each other . And As pretior thoughts said in his last post weigh up thin
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Esme your private pms are full
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Extra Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > Rensil I am confused and concerned because Esme is > clearly struggling with what they have been > through but a lot of what they have shared does > not tie up. We are very aware that the leaders of > struthers read this page. Esme has shared that > their dad is not happy they are posting here. >
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Thank you Redroad .Esme and Mulberry for your post. IM SURE THEY ARE OTHERS .. I wonder who will be at the Easter conference this weekend. I put my last few post up because .we know there's lots of folk who read this forum and never say a word. I know loads who are in my past I would love to talk to again.Alot of folk know who I am and anyone who wishes to have a word with me please get i
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Ohhh Redroad that made us laugh.I mind off each of your memories well. Another one what came into my memory is I mind my first camp at a ripe age of about ten. We arrived at camp to be showing to our tent. There infront of us was a old canvas Scout tent. 8 off us were to stay in this with one of the adults. WE were all excited and took ages all getting to sleep that night to be woke up in the
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Following on from my last post. Are they any chance for each one of us posting somthing nice . Could be outwith a meeting at smc . It could be a fond memory . A funny thing happening connecting to somone or something in the time you attended Smc. Please
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Amazing grace Wrote: --------------------------------------------------- > Petitor has said many times about opposite views > that’s ok…you have an equal right to express your > experiences. > But I’m certainly not ‘hounding you out’ by asking > for clarification (as someone not you has pm me). I really hope that is not happening folk getting hounded in pm. The last f
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Esmespiers Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > Well, well, surprise durprisr lm amazed it took so > long. One tells the truth only to be told it's > fictional this is not an unusual strategy. Perhaps > l don't give pages of critical analysis like > others and they have a right to do that. But, l > have a right to share my experienc
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WestofScotland Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > Yes I agree that people are entitled to their view > and I am all for people speaking up where they > feel there has been injustice - 100%. Things need > to be spoken of in order for change to come (be > that in individual’s own situations or in an > organisation). > > What I am again
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> ask for her to be removed if that’s not already > been done. These posts are taking away from the > genuine discussion that has been taking place and > may well lead to the discrediting of useful > conversation for many people. > > Thanks for listening. Esme is allowed her view on her experience . IT would be like us gagging her again as Struthers tried to d
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Esme post on main thread and my answer 2 it ..I hope others feel the same as myself Esmespiers Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > Horror Minister Alison Spiers Aka Jeckyl > Posted by: Esmespiers () > Date: April 14, 2025 06:51AM > > > Alison Spiers got rid of any privacy apart from > Vestry treatment for underv40s, seen as more &
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Have copied and pasted on main thread
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Esme you say you have talked to Andrew and his wife. They have shared there thoughts about the Speirs ect with you . But don't they think they owe an apology to the folk they have hurt over the years. Also I have heard from a few he wants or wanted the top slot and only left is he got told no . It's ok for them to share things through you but I think that it would mean alot more he sto
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ThePetitor Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > [/quote > I think that is what happened with many of the > youth leaders – they were taught that bullying and > a lack of any compassion for others was “the > spiritual way”, tried to implement that teaching > and as a result caused untold damage to those they > were meant to be “leading”.
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London calling was interesting reading your experience at camp I think the boys you speak of is the Sons of the same youth leader in spoke of for what I have heard. This seems a common thing it seems in Smc . Me being a parent and Nana to 8 grand kids I can assure you if anyone told me any of them bullied other kids anytime I can tell you they would be punished and made to apologise to
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ANOTHER POST BY ESME ON THE WROONG PLACE COPIED AND PASTED OVER Alison Spiers Hortor minister: 1: Rules for success grovel and l mean grovel to Alison, Rash spiders. 2: Vestry if you are bright and intelligent, seen as a threat and called being.... Rebellious or independent. 3: Excorcism was weekly with some poor soul being told they were filthy, filthy, filthy. The knee treatmen
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ESME YOUR POSTING ON WRONG BOAED THIS IS COPIED AND PASTED OVER FROM MAIN BOARD EXORCIST Pauline Anderson mutated to Saint Polly new Posted by: Esmespiers () Date: April 12, 2025 01:52AM Exorcist mutated to Saint? Posted by: Esmespiers () Date: April 12, 2025 01:43AM : Exorcist Pauline Anderson Posted by: Esmespiers Date: 04/12/2025 01:38AM Exorcist Pauline Anderson Posted
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The last few weeks, I have been thinking about sharing my memories and thoughts about this. I must admit I thought twice but feel this is the right time to share this When I was at Winston one year, I was out for a walk one evening after the meeting with a friend. We hung out down at the graveyard, just chatting away. Well, we heard voices and knew we would be in trouble if we were caught bein
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Been interesting reading the past week . All I would like to add is that . It's not just the main leaders in the church . That need to say sorry for the hurt they caused. It's everyone who had any authority over anyone else. Sunday school leaders . Youth leaders. As the never know they could have hurt and offended others who attended years ago. I know reading the forum there's only
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I Don't care who knows who I am. Think most do and if anyone wants to pm me
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GentlenessandJustice Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > Amazing grace, > > your response to Esmespiers is heart-rending - to > me especially this... > > "Because I had (like others of my generation) went > to other leaders to talk about the abuse but I was > basically gaslighted by AS and I became the one > that was in the
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Copy and paste them
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Esmespiers > Thank you FB and Petitor and Rensil in advance. > For this genuinely upset l say sorry to you. > But, having lived through what l did why should l > be hiding the truth to keep Piers protected when l > wasn't. No one should try to silence you. Or anyone else. This is a safe place we can all say what we wish. I'm like yourself no one will ever Silen
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anonymousfornow Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- > Hi all - Some of these comments and conversations > are becoming slightly problematic and worrying, > and I think we would do well to refocus. SMC > controls people's lives, has a dodgy belief > system, and has systemically harmed and continues > to harm families and communities. They ar
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Ok I have been very quiet for a while .Has been a very interesting and worrying read these past few weeks. Welcome Esme to the forum I am very sorry of everything you have went through. Rise above them please. We are all hear to help and support each other. OK let's trying somthing a wee bit diffrent. We have all talked about our bad experience in this church but I can bet each one of
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Redroad thanks alot for your post .This has saved me alot of time and sleepless night trying to sort this out in my head. Got enough to sort out without adding more. Alot of things are moving forward. But everyone we all need to support each other . Also we need to also mind some folk really don't want to talk about SMC and what happened to them all the time. I know me myself nearly a yea
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L Can you please send me it REDROAD THANKS
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Hi its been great to see the new contributors to the forum . I can say I mind 90% of the things getting talked about but minding these things have openned up the flood gates to other memories of my time there .What Im finding hard to mind and hope to talk to others about this soon But today I have a ? Will Struthers ever change,NO what most of us went through all those years ago is happenin
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