Judy,
It isn't just a new age concept that whatever happens to you is your fault, it is found in Hinduism and Buddhism, where they actually found it. It comes from the law of karma. I also grew tired of this belief. If someone was suffering, the Buddhists would say, It is their karma, and it would feel like I was supposed to just brush off their suffering since it was their fault. It felt
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