Could you please provide a better post? More background and general information and we might be of help. I'm assuming you are referring to The Children of God - but just referencing "The Family" could be any number of cults that use that as a descriptive title for their group.
What is Robert's involvement in TCG? What is your connection? How have you been threatened?
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"Cults," Sects, and "New Religious Movements"