James G.:
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because none of those experts have been exposed to AA fully? Have any of them been addicts or alcoholics? Two or three meetings does not cover what might be called a thorough examination of the practices of any group.
This is very similar to cult member's comments on this board, offering the defense that no one can understand their group without becoming directly involved and the frequent statement made by Landmark Education participants "that's not my experience," as a response to complaints about that company's programs.
It is possible to draw conclusions about groups without participating directly and/or sharing in the experience.
As stated previously anti-cult organizations, cult experts and the usual people that receive complaints about "cult like" groups and "brainwashing" are not receiving such complaints about AA that I am aware of.
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there are plenty of sites that allow ex members of AA as well as their families to describe in detail their horrific experiences of AA.
As stated previously, it is evident that AA critics has made good use of the Internet. But that doesn't change the fact that other those specific outlets, AA still isn't generating the complaints you would expect through more typical and/or conventional channels given its size and history.
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people are frightened of speaking out against AA
Over the years people have spoken out despite their fears about very violent and dangerous cults. It seems unlikely that concerned families would be frightened to speak out about AA if they had complaints and serious concerns regarding loved ones.
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AA is quick to remind us that a public doubting of the program leads to relapse which in turn leads to death – is it any wonder no one wants to be publicly exposed for doing so?
This seems like little more than a conveinent apology. However, that apology still doesn't explain why families with serious concerns about "brainwashing" would not come forward, if they think that AA is hurting rather than helping a loved one.
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your own site which I get a sense is often mistaken for one that is endorsed by Scientology – they run a site called The Cult Awareness Network – this may sadly prevent people posting on here...perhaps this false association with Scientology is harming the integrity of this site. I am of course assuming you have no connection with Scientology.
Are you serious or joking here?
Scientology has sites attacking this site and me by name, including the so-called "New Cult Awareness Network." No one could possibly be confused or seriously concerned about any supposed connection to Scientology.
And Scientology has listed me as its perceived enemy for some time.
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I am curious to know why you are so defensive of AA. Are you absolutely sure you have no business, nor personal, interest in its PR machine? I ask this merely to quash the thoughts that have arisen in my mind as a result of your posts on here, and no doubt I am not alone in thinking this.
No there is no conspiracy here.
I am not "defensive" because I have no personal or professional interest whatsoever regarding AA other than this; AA is not a "cult" and this board and other cult education resources, which are quite limited, should be focused on cults, cult-like groups and closely related subjects of interest.
It is important to make these distinctions regarding what is a "cult" and what is not, as well as not blur the lines between the different forms of persuasion as noted by Margaret Singer.
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May I be so bold as to ask you to what extent that is? [professional involvement in 12-step groups]
As you were previously advised in an email earlier today, my work in the 1980s at a social service agency coordinating a program that included people with substance abuse problems involved locating resources such as support groups. The agency used 12-step programs such as AA and NA as support group resources. Some clients attended these groups. I once attended an NA meeting as an observer.
We never received any complaints that I am aware of.
My work at the agency ended in 1986 and that is the full extent of my professional work with 12-step groups.
I have no personal involvement whatsoever, other than like many people I have had aquaintences/friends that attended such programs.
Again, no complaints.