There can be a lot of abusive behavior in religious relationships and I have met a lot of women, and some men, who were told they were weak for being victims of any type of violence. And that being what was labeled as weak was also their own fault.
I think Lundy Bancroft offers some new perspective and ways of making change happen in a healthy way. I'm still reading and slowly understanding and it helps putting some past experiences, also in cults, into perspective. He doesn't seem to be love bombing.
Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 06/16/2021 04:34PM by mesche.