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One thing that I have found, is that many like me who got out of the corruption, still hold on to the religious parts of the movement, and are actually not bitter!
Welcome to the board. However, if one's phase of recovery requires feeling anger and grief one has disowned for many, many years, thats a necessary part of recovery and must not be dismissed or criticized as 'being bitter.'
Groups that emphasize bliss, happiness and Bhakti Yoga, would be likely to inculcate a fear of 'negativity' in members. After leaving such a group, former devotees may have difficulty allowing themselves to experience painful emotions.
RR.com has assembled extensive files on ISKON from many sources in the media
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culteducation.com]
and there a website dedicated to a devotee, Solcana Das who was murdered when he wrote an expose
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mitglied.lycos.de]
A big part of recovery is owning all one's emotions and learning to experience the full array of emotions disowned during one's time in a group.
Implying that persons working to recover thier disowned anger and grief are being 'bitter' does them a dreadful dis-service.