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Rothaus
I just thought about some issues the other day. We often pointed out the somewhat dysfunctional family situations some members had at home – mainly leaders.
I often wondered about that typical viscous cycle taking place in life according to SGI.
One is thought to care for fellow members (which at first sight sounds honourable). When looking back did any of you guys never thought that some members overdo the 'caring for others issue' to the extent that they disrespect their own lives? Its as if some of them think that 'caring' for others will make their own problems disappear, as if being in a constant 'helping mode' will be followed by a miraculous reward.
I pointed out those issues now and again in past messages but it just seems to come together now.
In some cases the 'problems' and 'issues' some members had were quite trivial, but never the less leaders would bathe them with attention. In a very sick sense SGI-Ideology is not designed at all to make one become happy at all, as a degree of unhappiness and unresolved issues makes sure you will stick to SGI.
Hello, Rothaus and Everyone on here...I am new but have been reading from start to finish the posts, and I will be re-reading them again and again, I'm sure. As a long-time member of SGI, I have to say this observation is pretty spot-on. Putting aside the realities of family obligations, outside-SGI friend obligations, to solely submerge in Gakkai, is totally defeating and escapist. "Actual Proof"? I think not...Sad. I have been trying to post here the last few days and maybe I am not doing it right.
I like chanting and it's done me a lot of good. A lot of good, despite the fact that Mr. Ikeda is not my Mentor In Life. That I've pretty much picked and chosen what activities I do. That I've never had a consistent practice.
SGI says this is the only way. Temple people evil and foul. We have to Merge with Master Ikeda. We have to become Shin'ichi Yamamoto. We have to fulfill Sensei's Vow. We have to meet his expectations. His heart is our heart. We cannot speak our concerns, because it's Fundamental Darkness. Our feelings do not count. Only Sensei....
Mr. Ikeda has written about being true to oneself....Well, all of us here are being just that. And not being struck down with lightning for being so...
Okay, can't type anymore...thanks for listening!