I think there are many reasons. Why posters try to shut down other posters from speaking out about John and G&M. They can be in denial. Still under the spell. Or get a self esteem boost by shaming others. I'm superior to you because I don't blame anyone. Or you have an obsession. You're damn right I do.
I agree with you. Trying to make sense of it is not wrong. I'm thinking of all the questions Job had regarding his suffering.
A working link to Reflections from the Wall that Larry Bobo posted and recommended:
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