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Amyswerld
I guess from the lack of response that I'm the odd person out on this topic. It's been suggested to me that I look into sexual anorexia and join a sex addicts 12 step group. I don't think that's a good idea to join a sex addicts group. However.... I think there's something to the level of involvement in church and the propensity toward a sexual phobia.
I don't think you're the only one. Maybe people just haven't seen your post yet, as not everyone checks every forum. My story is a bit different from yours, but I do think being in a cult has affected my personal relationships. I'll write more when I'm able to.
As far as sexual anorexia, that might be something you should look into. I read up on it a few years ago for a friend. In NYC, the Sexual Anorexics meeting is actually a subgroup of the SLAA (Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous), even though it's obviously the complete opposite of a sex addiction, so I'm guessing that's why the person suggested you look into Sexual Compulsives Anonymous - because they may be the group in your area that runs the Sexual Anorexics (or Anorectics) meetings. If you don't feel comfortable going to a meeting, then read up on the topic online or buy a book on the topic.