But Cherie Aills aka Cherie Phillips aka Cherie ???? website choosingthelight.com is no more. I also received a letter and phone calls recently from her. More of her same stuff. Trying to control and twisting the truth. I will publish her letter once I scan it and post it to the forums for all to see the mind of a sociopath...Hang in there all. Controllers and abusers eventually self destuct and sometimes dilligence on the part of exit couselors and victims who puruse legal recourse force some of these dangerous cons into the weeds and stop at least temporarily their games.