Support Group for Those Living with Landmarkians???
Date: March 19, 2005 11:16AM
Hype,
I can discuss REAL experience with a Lekkie (my now ex-wife [still find it tough to use that ex word & wife together) of 20 yrs) We had something alot of folks never get to enjoy...finding a true soulmate...
In 1 weekend (Forum) our lives were manipulated & changed forever...
With all you have said and comments of others..I might suggest to you to follow your heart, listen to it but keep a logical head...there are some things you might be able to do to help her. IMO, I would not just give up yet (black/white logic) but perhaps instead for now, get street-wide with LEC, check out the various (yes, various ) onion-slices of this LEC animal from REAL experiences that were bad (because you have seen (like me) soberly what the effects really are - those that "graduated" (from what?-sharing 101?)cannot see/sense/feel it, which I'm sure by now that you have experienced. With my ex's LEC situation, I told my kids that I would have to do something, even if it failed, to be able to someday go to my grave with a smile that I had done ALL THAT I COULD to help her. Well it failed (It was a lose/lose situation for me anyway, but I can say that we tried) After 20 wunderful yrs, nothing could have ever come between us. I now know that the only possible way was someone taking control of either her head or mine.
So gather info mon ami, realize the raptors have her, there are slim chances but you can only come to act with knowledge & awareness...then later you'll be able to re-con the commenters on this web-site and alt.fan.landmark on google who are lekkies...
I lost the love of my life (seriously, no one who reads this could ever totally understand) but I survived to fight another day AND perhaps some day a civil suit v.s. LEC might appear on the horizon as more info gets out! LEC CULT or CULTURE?
Start by asking for some good anti-cult books from the listers on this board...think critically always!
If you would like to chat e-m me. I have personally been down this road of yours...a non-lekker dealing with a lekker relationship.
Ok, even I "rec" that I have gone on too much...good luck but I am willing to listen & try to help you if would like, just ask....
PAX
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