Oz:
It's great to have you back onboard!
You are one of the 'greats' around here!
Your message was heartfelt and eloquent. Congratulations on supporting Jane through recovery, learning to add (2+2=4) again.
While my cult related loss has a different ending than yours... you are right in that a change in me happened through losing a love to an LGAT cult (The Miracle of Love).
Ultimately the change in me is for the better - as you describe - justice and mercy both! It took awhile to untangle internally though. The process resulted in simultaneously increased humility and increased self-credibility - don't know how to describe.
Let us know when to expect wedding bells. What a journey you have traversed together. Again, congrats! Looking forward to reading your contributions again. :D
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Concerned Oz
It took patience and a change in me to enable this to happen.
Justice is no good without mercy.
No matter how much it hurts, LE or other cult participants are innocent and loved ones need to die to self a bit in order to help.