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skeptic
And, no surprise, he became even more of an asshole-narcissist; he was one already but the lgat made him much, much worse. UGH.
When a participant buys hook line and sinker the line that he can remove the negative in his life by removing the people that are negative from their environment.
What else is it going to create?
The level and degree of a person being an A-hole after participating in LGAT seminars will be in direct correlation to what kind of A-hole they where prior to attending a LGAT seminar.
As I look back over my being sucked into this philosophy for almost 2 years myself. I can even see where I became an A-Hole in how I dealt with people at times.
My desire to not be one is very much the part of my personality that finally openned me up to what was being created within myself with LGAT mentality.
It took my wife refusing to accept her being an A-Hole relationally and using the LGAT terminology to avoid being responsible for this relational behavior with Klemmer staff telling me that my wife can choose how she applies what is taught in their seminars.
If you look at this from this angle. Yes she is. What I am looking at is the overall relational interaction between the two of us trying to use Klemmers tools and having it fail in producing what was promised by company between us.
Then having Klemmer step back and refuse to be held accountable for their powerful influence on what is, and is not happening in our relationship.
As I read the many posts on this website. My situation is not an isolated one, and there is definitely a consistent and predictable pattern that takes place within emotionally unhealthy relationships coming into LGAT seminars.
This is exactly where emotional malpractice is being done by LGAT's. They are taking on a psychiatrist role in seminars, while having participants sign legal waivers releasing from psychological damage before a participant can even participate in seminar.
Yet, in the same breath. They will not reveal what they deal with in seminars stating you must experience it to understand and see it.
The human psyche is not a toy. It varies in its ability to withstand mind control, manipulation, and brainwashing with each and every individual.
As I am dealing with a professional psychiatrist to unravel the mess from my experience with Klemmer and its philosphy.
I am able to see that I was, and still am very emotionally damaged from past psychical and emotional abuse in my life. I have extreme codependent tendencies that have not given me healthy internal boundaries to stay away from abusive people and environments in my life.
I was a ripe apple waiting to be picked and manipulated by Klemmer & Associates and their seminars that is an LGAT program.
Now its the hard part. No more short cuts emotionally for me.
I am in professional counseling learning how to have proper and healthy internal boundaries which would have kept me from being sucked into Klemmer as I failed to avoid not having them in my life.