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yugteews
I guess the problem is that almost everybody is needy and vulnerable in some way.
In other words, if you discount the profound lessons that they claim to offer, you are not concerned about the effect on an existing relationship, and you view it simply as a means to have an interesting experience and meet people, would it be a mistake to participate for those reasons?
Let me take these two ideas and put them together and suggest that you might be able to answer your own question.
I agree with you that most normal people have moments of feeling needy and vulnerable. I have those feelings periodically. Let me suggest that normal people also find ways of solving their issues and working their way out of bad situations, i.e, a marriage that is no longer working can be ended regardless of the circumstances....it is usually not considered a good idea to secretly seek sex and romance outside of a marriage while the marriage is still in place....usually considered counterproductive!
Second point....If I had a chunk of money and plenty of time that I wanted to spend having an interesting experience and meeting people, I would not choose to spend the money and time at HAI. As I said, HAI is LANDMARK without the clothes. I speak from the experience of someone who took EST and was on the EST senior staff during its heyday. When I figured out that I had "gotten" what EST was, I left. There are a million better ways of parting with your money and meeting interesting people without baring all of your weaknesses and hurts so that someone else can scoop them up and lay them out in front of you for all the world to see and engulfing yourself in the wacky world of sex-first, life-second.
However, you may find it enticing and appealing. Sex really sells!