So, how can I be happy he's part of this insanity? People who say things like "I'm a stand for the clearing of the possibility." Makes me want to throw UP!!!!
Okay. I'm done. Gotta move on.
good idea to move on. Give it a rest. He seems to be hard to crack. i dont know of a good way to crack such an indoctrinated person. I wish I had some reciepe.
About being in the moment - I would say that is when you are present to what is going on right now, not thinking about tomorrow or yesterday. Although landmark using CLEARING (a form of talk 1 one 1 where you investigate what is keeping you from being here and know) which is a pretty powerful tools they overload you with work and thoughts and assignments which make you snap out of here and now. So you become in constant need of clearing.
I think this is some variation of the scientology e-meter clearing but without out the e-meter.
A landmark leader has to stay CLEARED all the time. They train to stay unattached to everything. But sometimes they get attached to something; ie when the course is not going at the pace it is supposed to or somebody in the course is giving them trouble (not being coachable). I have seen forum leaders come out of the course room to take a break steaming with anger. They will never show this to the participants but when you assist around a course you will see their true nature. One of the most important assistants is the course supervisor. One friend of mine who was a course supervisor was being shouted at for missing to remind the forum leader about something. He was sure that she was wrong about it but she told him she couldn't win against him.
What I am trying to say is that landmark leaders are like dr Jekyll and Mr Hyde. The can switch personalities in a matter of seconds.
I too hate when I hear people utter stupidities like "I'm a stand for the clearing of the possibility."