[The LGAT I attended, while insisting on strict adherence to the rules of the seminar also insisted on adherence to the rules that govern us as a society.
That was the meaning you took on it. You can't say that is how every participant took it.
I am like you and took what was taught with the same perception. It took my wife choosing to have a whole different way of looking at it and its meaning for her in how she is choosing to be in life to wake me up to this contradiction that exists in these seminars.
I can now look back and see many other examples in other participants who was doing what my wife is doing also.
My focus was so fixed on me from having Klemmer drive me in only looking at me as being at cause, and etc...
Well not all of us in society follow the rules of society and just because I try to do this. Doesn't mean all others do this.
Also it places me in a delusional state that blocks me from hearing how my behavior is affecting another. Which is not their problem always. Many times it is mine, and I need to hear that my behavior is unwelcomed and needs to be changed.
This is what I believe causes much of the harm in participants in LGAT's.
Some will hear this from others. While others choose to not hear this.
Actually I don't think they choose not to hear it. I think they turn of the megaphone that is telling them about it.
Pain, and conflict. Sometimes it is a megaphone that needs to be listened to. Sometimes it is what I need to hear about me that is very negative and at the same time very needed to be heard by me.
Many in LGAT's come in to these seminars with this megaphone turned off in their lives. All the seminars do for them is to seal off access to turning on this megaphone as pleasure, and hedonism is encouraged to be sought by those in attendance.
It is a emotional unhealthy breeding ground where participants are stirred up with such intensity that both good and bad come out of the controlled chao's used to brainwash the participants with encouraging interactions that are both good and bad.
The good gets used to promote the seminars. While the bad are discarded and glossed over as being the participants fault of not getting it.
What a huge SCAM. I punch you in the face, and then tell you that your face hurting is because you did not get it and missed what was needed to get from being hit in face. Besides the bystander who watched me hit you in the face has taken your being hit in face and has created some amazing things in his life. He got it. Why won't you get it?
What a joke... This is never ending in how it can go round, and round, and round...