GC--you are not the first person to tell me that what I saw was typical. See my post answering Dutch's question. It gives more detail about what transpired between me and the CM. [
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I did 1 other call after that with my coach and called it quits just about a week ago.
Yes, they've tried every trick in the book already. My coach (a seminar leader "committed" to my effectiveness) even sent a note to many people in various leader bodies indicating that I had "completed" as an IL and that the RM, CM and her acknowledge and appreciate what I've contributed. Yeah...all after berating me, screaming at me and telling me I have no stand for humanity. Yeah...justify swearing and screaming at people in the name of making the world a better place. That's logical....NOT.
So there are lists of these things that they use...do tell. :-)