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Europe-girl
@Jack Oskar Larm, I like the point you make about breakthroughs. You know, when you say "they're a scam" I understand where you're coming from. But who is the "they"?
'They' are many people and/or entities. They are those in power, with or without knowledge of the whole picture and/or agenda. Corporations like Landmark can get so large and/or complex that you'd be hard-pressed to find one paid individual with the whole picture. But that's not the point. An octopus still needs eight arms/legs...
But, in many ways, 'they' is 'them', as in, [i:0b7c989167]Us and Them[/i:0b7c989167]. And that is what it is ... except that [i:0b7c989167]truly authentic[/i:0b7c989167] Forums, like Rick Ross, engage in [i:0b7c989167]really real[/i:0b7c989167] discussions - without the kind of censorship you'll find in 'cult' organisations and/or religions - which Landmark is both.
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As Sonnie-dee pointed out, most of the people in Landmark are in it with honest noble intentions, as was I. I'm a sucker for nuance, call me crazy. :wink: The "they" must be way up in the organization. I was part of it I agree, but if I had known what I know now, I would have chosen differently.
Yeah, that's the point. But I think between those with 'honest' intentions and those hoping to gain more justification for their self-centred ways, the likely split is 50-50. From my experience, this seems to be the case. (This is a whole topic on its own...Intentions and/or motivations :? )
Ultimately, as you've said, many who commit to Landmark get something out of it. As sad as it must seem for many who are committed, a day will come when you have to say goodbye and make it on your own. From what I've gathered from your posts, Europe-girl, you seem to be fairly unaffected by Landmark programming...remain curious, I say.
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You asked something about sane people, and screening for that, am I right? Yes, they do screen intensively, I think I can still catch on to any sign of instability when I listen carefully to someone. I guess they don't want any instable people inthere because it leads to problems and bad advertising - not good for business.
From the evidence, plenty of 'mentally unstable' people get through the doors of Landmark. Many of these 'fragile' individuals present no immediate threat, but, when they do, Landmark has a policy of keeping the peace by paying off the victim. Organisations like this do not want bad publicity. But organisations like this cannot help but generate bad publicity by their very natures.
I ask, where is the transparency?
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But they also want people inthere who "have something at stake", in my days you had to have a specific goal for doing a course. So... that leads automatically to people who are open for new suggestions (!) and will not leave too quickly. When you want to leave halfway, this goal is also used to keep you in. Then it's being argued that you just hit a big obstacle that holds you back from achieving your breakthrough in this particular area. Actually, thinking about this, this can be true in some cases. Who hasn't seen a person trying to duck a conversation because the one and only real sore point got touched...? But I also remember vividly that keeping someone in the course wasn't just for their sake. Having someone leave was almost worse then not meeting your enrollment target. It made you look real bad.
You know, the same could be said about organisations like the Nazi Party (1930-40s).
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As I said the inner dialogue [i:0b7c989167]can [/i:0b7c989167]be in the way, it [i:0b7c989167]can [/i:0b7c989167]be handy to even realise it's there. I agree that if you work with this in the wrong way, it can lead to mental illnesses. In fact I once saw someone leap into a manic phase as a result of it (this person had hidden a manic-depression disorder prior to the course...).
Oh, by the way, I said true authenticity, because I think that word is being misused within Landmark, of course it's a tautology - I just wanted to emphasise I didn't mean it in the jargon-kind-of-way. :wink:
I didn't profess to be an expert on metal illness and/or the workings of the 'inner voice'. Whether illnesses like schizophrenia is somehow connected to this 'inner voice', I can't be sure. I think diagnosis of such would be irresponsible and/or dangerous. Have a hunch - but seek professional advice.
Tautology is lazy and/or bad writing. Simple as that!