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leftcoast8
A part of me believes that it's hard for someone like her--who believes so strongly that Landmark can only do good, and conversely, good can only ever come out of Landmark (and nowhere else)--to see good things happen to me while I profess my disdain for all things LEC.
Does any of that make sense? Or do I just come off looking like a completely self-important b*tch?
That makes perfect sense. She wants to enroll you, but can't find that all important chink to use against you. She's probably also frustrated that you're doing the opposite of what she's telling you you need to do, but still things are working out for you. Despite what LEC tells you, they really are desperate to be right (even when they're claiming that being right doesn't matter, really it does, because Landmark still has to be right).
I understand your disinclination to remain friends with her -- but perhaps you should remember that there was something in there that you valued before she got sucked in by Landmark. I appreciate there's not much you can do now, but she may need your help if she ever snaps out of it. I'd be tempted to e-mail her back and tell her that you don't mind her not talking to you, you were just curious as to the causes -- and that if she ever gets out of Landmark and needs your help, you'll be there for her. (me being me, I'd probably belabour the point and say that you don't want her to contact you when she "stops making you wrong", because you don't want to be harrassed into trying Landmark -- but I always fall on the wrong side of subtlety ;) )