Hello. I can relate to a lot of what you're saying here.
Two thoughts spring to mind:
1. Yes, introverted people are at a disadvantage in these things. Firstly, the true purpose of the damn things is to create salespeople for the courses, and introverts generally don't make good sales people. Secondly, the defining characteristic of introverts is that they re-charge their batteries by getting away from people then use up their energy dealing with people; extroverts are the opposite - they re-charge their batteries from other other people and lose energy when alone. So an introvert would naturally be more overwhelmed by the courses, where you are allowed no time alone.
2. You may have heard of the 'highly sensitive person' concept. It is not universally accepted as valid, but it is fairly sound, based on good peer-reviewed research that has recently become accepted or at least, acknowledged, in main-stream psychology. The basic idea is:
"a personality trait that affects as many as one out of every five people. According to Dr. Aron's definition, the Highly Sensitive Person (HSP) has a sensitive nervous system, is aware of subtleties in his/her surroundings, and is more easily overwhelmed when in a highly stimulating environment....... It also means you are more easily overwhelmed when you have been out in a highly stimulating environment for too long, bombarded by sights and sounds until you are exhausted." An HSP herself, Aron reassures other Highly Sensitives that they are quite normal. Their trait is not a flaw or a syndrome, nor is it a reason to brag.
It is an asset they can learn to use and protect.In defining the Highly Sensitive Person, Dr. Aron provides examples of characteristic behaviors, and these are reflected in the questions she typically asks patients or interview subjects:
Are you easily overwhelmed by such things as bright lights, strong smells, coarse fabrics, or sirens nearby?
Do you get rattled when you have a lot to do in a short amount of time?
Do you make a point of avoiding violent movies and TV shows?
Do you need to withdraw during busy days, into bed or a darkened room or some other place where you can have privacy and relief from the situation?
Do you make it a high priority to arrange your life to avoid upsetting or overwhelming situations?
Do you notice or enjoy delicate or fine scents, tastes, sounds, or works of art?
Do you have a rich and complex inner life?
When you were a child, did your parents or teachers see you as sensitive or shy?"
... another list:
Do you get overwhelmed by stimuli such as lights, noises, and smells?
Do other people’s moods and emotions deeply affect you?
Are you easily startled?
Do you become uneasy when someone is watching you complete a task?
Do you become tired easily after a “normal” day of activity?
Are you aware of other things in your environment that most other people are not aware of?
Do you become agitated or anxious when you have a lot of tasks to do and not enough time to complete all of them?
Do you avoid disturbing or violent movies, books, or T.V. shows?
Do you feel the need to escape and retreat when there is too much going on around you?
Are you deeply interested in the arts or music?
Do you dislike changes in your life?
Do you enjoy delicate tastes, scents, sounds, soft fabrics, or beautiful works of art?
Have you always been labeled as shy or sensitive by other people?
Are you overly conscientious?
Do you seem to be more sensitive to pain than other people?
Are you sensitive to certain foods such as foods containing caffeine, sugar or alcohol?
Do you become unpleasant when you are hungry?
Do you easily sense the energies of places or situations?
Are you easily touched by others' experience, stories of kindness, and courage?
Are you attracted to the deeper things such as spirituality, self-development and philosophy?
Do you need time alone?
Are your feelings easily bruised?
Do you have a vivid imagination?
I don't know if this fits you, but if you do have this trait and if you accept the theory of it, then it is to be expected that you would react particularly badly to the courses (like a canary in a mineshaft, setting off an alarm that the air is bad). It also means that a gentler approach would be more helpful than a ruthless one. You seem to be particualarly concerned about morality, and to have a lot of entelechy, a trait of gifted people. It makes me think that lifespring took a hammer to a lily blossom (or baby willow tree, if you are male and don't want to be a flower) and I am sorry about that.
I don't 100% buy into everything about hsp and am personally uncomfortable with the concept (it sounds a bit wimpy and embarrassing) but it is worth reading about.
If you do a google search you should get a few references, but here are the two sites I got the quotes from:
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www.sensitiveliving.com]
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www.hsperson.com]
I can understand how you're still drawn to some of the things promised by lifespring. I struggle to seperate the good and valid striving to be inspired and grow and improve my life and the world around me - from the lgat poison that is now associated with all those things. I would also like to hear what others have to say about this. I generally just do the opposite of what they did in the lgat - take small steps, make careful structured plans and goals (not damn intentions and manifestation bombs), gentle change, and so on. It eventually gets to me to where I'm going, and it doesn't kill me along the way. Order and planning, as opposed to magic solutions. The longing for magic I found is helped by using whole-brain thinking techniques - this article is aimed at gifted thinkers but I think it applies to anyone:
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www.newhorizons.org]
PS Corboy, if you are around, it would be really good if you could comment on the hsp concept, if you know anything about it, and specifically in relation to lgats. Your posts are very helpful, I don't usually comment on them but I do find them extremely helpful (your most recent message about shaming was really good, thank you).