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Hope
He named his chair "my problems" and threw it onto his back and dragged it around all over the stage, pretending he was crying and anxious and looking for pity. Then he mocked the entire field of psychology and therapists.
I saw the same thing during an Introduction. I had to assist to the Introduction because my ex-girfriend bursted into tears when I said I didn't really want to (a manipulation technique).
Anyway, I went to the Introduction, saw many nice and smiling people who were all willing to share their new experience with me (half of the attendees where Forum graduates) and I saw that scene where the leader would take a chair on his back and mock people who have problems ... and all that. I didn't like it.
But what is most surprising was for me to ear private testimonies from graduates (in private, after the show) saying that, indeed, this is like a new kind of therapy, that it is much more effective and much cheaper (!?) that a psychologist, and overall, it's a much better therapy that conventional psychotherapy. I heard that from my ex-girlfriend so many times! She kept telling me that she's been seeking counseling for years and years (psychologists, psychiatrists, antidepressors, etc...) and her life was still not working ok (2 divorces, difficulty at work, bad relationship, intention of committing suicide, etc ...)
Then, 6 years ago, she was "Transformed" by Landmark. And now, she "thinks" she has a great life. Does she? Well, I doubt it. I consider myself a well balanced and successful person in life, and she really screwed up her relationship with me, thanks to Landmark. She is in debt, has no stable job, she's struggling to run her little business that's not working, she looks tired and exhausted, spends hours and hours working for Landmark and trying to recruit new members, …etc
But the most dramatic, she says that if it was not for Landmark, she would probably commit suicide!!! Like Elena said before, she belongs in therapy, and she shouldn't have done the Forum at all. Now, she is totally under the control of that cult (she's now doing the seminar leader program, and has been volunteering for years).
To summarize, Landmarkians keep saying the program is for healthy people and that it doesn't replace conventional therapy, but for many it is being used as a therapy. And it's very dangerous. My first post was about a man who was in the seminar leader program in Toronto that has committed suicide now about 8 mouths ago. She knew him, but she kept saying he didn't commit suicide because of Landmark. Like she used to say about all those who have bad experience following Landmark "That's Their Problem"! So much for love, sharing and compassion.
Michael D.