Suspicious Pastor
Date: May 09, 2007 03:44PM
Okay, he sounds a little extreme. But just because you are single and love children, doesn't mean your crazy. Even though I'm divorced, I'm single, almost 30 and love working with kids. I want to be married someday, but who knows maybe at 36 I'll still be single. The only reason (personally) I would tell someone that they aren't "going to heaven" because of a relationship would be if you were causing her to stumble, then by her actions not go to heaven. Of course I wouldn't state it that way, but let's say you caused her (by her own will) to have sex with you, that is a bad relationship and should be stopped. If you are uplifting her relationship with God, then I don't believe (in my opinion) the church should but in.