Re: Struthers Memorial Independent Pentecostal Church
Date: April 17, 2013 02:58AM
Triple X-rated church ( I use the term "church" loosely now..). Lol, Cbarb! That sums it up.
I have been recently telling all kinds of people about my time attending SMC. Ok I agree that, in some places in some times, " more fervent prayer" is acceptable and appropriate. Every man and woman I have recanted tales to have been horrified.
I tried even to put a rational spin on some stories. (ie, attendance not compulsory...unless you want not to go to hell. and of course you can leave at any time...if you do definitely want to go to hell)
But the results are the same. I am in no doubt that this org does more damage than good. In fact, over the years, the damage is yet unmeasured, yet good continues to trickle out. Not even bad leadership can stop this.
CovLass, I read your story with an aching soul. And others too. I am fed up rationalising and indeed have been instructed to stop it. For my own sake..
So I am now spreading my experiences around and, gauging by reactions, mostly from people with faith, there are so many concerns, but how has this gone under the radar of most.
I have checked that Care Commission (called something else now? I forget..) have submitted a satisfactory report on Cedars. Yet it seems that too many of the right people are wholly unaware of how insular and integrated the whole org is.
Unanimously, among those I am telling, the opinion is that smc is not a church...just a cleverly camoed church.
Furthermore, I am meeting with Pastors of churches who have seen smc results (not ALL bad, but still...). They see the reputation of smaller flocks being tainted by people thinking that they are smc-types. This church is scaring people away from meaningful religions/congregations.
My Muslim brothers equate this type of control as the very same as terrorist organisations use to twist Islam into a weapon. And terrorism is not always in the form of the physical. I know there are people here who are victims of terrorism by smc.
Spreading the word has been thusfar therapeutic for me. I feel more awake and enlightened than I've felt for years. Thanks RRForum and the genuinely helpful souls here. (Incidently, analytical behavioural experts have a well-established link that shows the more suble the mind control: the harder it is to address or undo. I guess this makes sense, bury it deep then it's hard to dig at.)
Back to the future though! Kids are still in danger and I feel this is something that needs ongoing attention. Heads are turning and closer looks are being had. I did come across someone who outright did not believe that, as a pre-teen, I was encouraged (subtly...) to spend hours of discomfort on my knees, like my pain would please God?? Can anyone agree with me here? Of course, we were allowed to leave, but you feared to complain because that would mean you were inferior in the worshipping department. We all want to please. I do know that at one point, I was more concerned with what the leaders' opinions of me were, than whether or not God was pleased with me. Perhaps because I know that God forgives and can see all. The leaders would need visible proof. How screwed up is that?
Anyway, hope everyone is keeping hale'n'hearty. And, as per usual, I have totally forgotten what I came to say. Oh yeah! I have been telling my stories to anyone in a position to have concerns and be able to bump them up the foodchain. Certainly in Social Care circles, this treatment of children is absolutely against all laws and policies. People cannot believe how hidden this all is.
And in social circles...well, I'm no longer ashamed to say how bad I was fooled. I don't feel judged gullible and there have been strong reactions by some, that this still goes on.
An aside but I have to ask...Does anyone notice a difference between East and West portions of smc. I think I see Greenock, Cumbernauld etc as the thick end of the stick, where the failings of leadership are more evident. East of Falkirk seems to be less obviously controlling....or are they just better at it?? I see a few former eastern branches have left smc and seem to be doing just fine worshipping and learning under their own umbrella. Outreach work is more evident and leaders don't dictate, they guide. And their numbers swell. Congregations are tolerant and kind and I have heard nothing of the negativity associated with smc. Just wondering...
Have a nice week everyone. Thanks for your time. Be in touch.. Ifellaway.