BigJacque has to be an external troll, surely no one in Struthers is that unhinged. Or maybe they are now adding something to the communion wine?
Phoebe2, I hope you stick around and continue to post, your contributions have been very interesting and I've enjoyed reading them. I do think some people have and will continue to come here and stir things up with nonsense in order to make this discussion lose credibility. Many cults do this - Scientology for example are the masters at it. Thankfully the moderators step in when required.
I have often wondered how bad it must have been for SMC children who went to Cedars school. There is no escape, no respite, absolutely no chance for your brain to ever take in anything that wasn't SMC indoctrination, for 7 days a week. And no one ever thought this might not be a good idea?! And consequences at the weekend in church for things in school - this is just abuse, plain and simple. It's wrong. Thank God the Cedars school is no more.
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At one point I was attending 7 meetings a week:
Monday night Greenock Bible study
Tuesday night Glasgow Bible study (when Mr Black was alive)
Thursday ..house group
Friday prayer meeting Glasgow until it was stopped and then youth group Greenock
Saturday night meeting Greenock then eventually Glasgow
Sunday morning and Sunday night Glasgow
All while first studying full time then working full time!
So you averaged one SMC meeting every day of the week. Just madness. For young people in particular this is so debilitating. When are you meant to do anything for yourself in your own life? Further your career? Make friends? Explore God's earth? But that's the point. SMC don't want you to. They don't care about you. The only thing they care about is that you don't think about anything other then Struthers. And that way they can control every part of your entire life
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But it still blows my mind that so many intelligent adults join this thing voluntarily, and then stay there for the rest of their lives.
Upon reflection I think I may need to apologise for what I said here. Sorry if this was offensive to anyone who joined, it wasn’t meant to be.
Having researched cults for some time I now understand that nobody actively sets out to join a cult or high-control group. They join movements, communities, causes, or groups that meet their needs and ideals. Something they believe to be good, purposeful, and fulfilling. They join because the group offers something they’re missing in their lives at the time: belonging, purpose, identity, answers, structure, hope, or even adventure.
But over time, control tightens through gradual demands, isolation, fear, and more. Like boiling a frog, the heat rises so slowly they don’t notice until escape feels impossible. Then the person becomes trapped in their own ‘prison of belief’.
Because I never actively wanted to go to a single meeting, it's still difficult for me to grasp how someone would be excited to do so. But I appreciate that everyone will have had their own personal circumstances that lined up in a way that attending Struthers seemed appealing and right at the time. I never felt any positive emotions of any kind during any meeting, camp, conference, passion play, house group etc etc. Just relief when that event was over. I only ever wanted to not have to go. My personal circumstances never drove me to seek out something like this, so I just can’t relate to it.