buffman:
Some very good points below. Especially about Stanley Milgram, lots to explore there.
Since you have done the Tony Robbins LGAT, you could point out here the similarities between James Ray and Tony Robbins techniques. (and Tony Robbins has many more seminars after UPW of course, isn't that an intro seminar?)
James Ray does use his tactics in virtually every sentence he utters in public.
But just to be clear, its not been in this thread where its been said that James Ray is intentionally setting out to hurt people in a way that would get him into trouble. Quite the opposite.
There have been many blogs saying that James Ray is "evil" and such, but none of that here in these threads.
James Ray certainly knows exactly what he is doing to people, BUT, he certainly does NOT know exactly how it all works technically, as he's just copying others. But he is 100% conscious of the damage being done to people, that is a fact. People can read his disclaimers, where he says so.
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Also, anyone who works for the LGAT's for a few years, sees the people getting hurt, and getting bankrupt by the seminars. So you have to be extremely self-centered and utterly ruthless to do this to vulnerable people. These guys are ruthless sharks. But of course, some people are proud to be a shark, and rationalize it to themselves. Ususally their "power animal" is a predator, so they are proud to be a predator, and not the prey.
Why are these LGAT Guru's like James Ray hurting so many people?
These Guru's aren't stupid, and they don't want to do things that will get them into trouble or jail.
What they want to do is to use all means available in order to exercise maximum control and power over their subjects, for their own wealth and infinite egomania.
So they use every method and technique of group control they can get their hands on, and they push it as far as they can.
The subjects who are getting hurt, are those who get caught in the crossfire as collateral damage to the LGAT guru's ambitions. The people who end up seriously hurt or dead are collateral damage to their business.
And the payouts they are forced to make , are just a cost of doing their business to them.
In the mind of these gurus, its a business machine, and some people get crushed.
They then run and cover it up to protect their business.
They even often have contempt for those who get hurt as being "weak", and the more power they get over their subjects, the crazier they get.
Power corrupts.
James Ray wanted to push people to the edge of death, most likely to create a deep bonding experience that would create some lifetime followers. (that could be explored in great detail). People in previous years were seriously hurt, months before Colleen Conaway died, and they knew it. People were seriously hurt, and they just kept going, and stopped people getting help, so that shows the real conscious intent.
And these extreme LGAT Guru's EXPECT some people to get seriously hurt and EXPECT some people to die at their seminars, it says so right in their descriptions of the seminar in their waivers and releases. They say they know others have/may have been hurt in the past, and that people can die. So to them, a few people getting killed is par for the course.
And who knows what happens inside the mind of a serious narcissist LGAT Guru, when people are getting seriously hurt and are even dying from time to time due to his "power".
Talk about power going amok.
The "general" doesn't lose sleep over the collateral damage.
And the serious injuries and deaths at the extreme LGAT seminars, would certainly be worn as a badge of honor by the "fearless leader", after all, he sees himself as a fake white Shaman, and "today is a good day to die". (for his followers, not for him).
One of James Ray's senior people was obviously coached to tell the survivors that they "chose" to die, in that recorded conference call. So there it is in black and white.
But trained people arent't going to believe the feeble lies being put forward about these events.
So the James Ray crocodile tears for his victims, are not believable in the least, its a performance.
Most likely, guys like James Ray are malignant narcissists, or have a serious Narcissistic Personality Disorder NPD. They are so self-obsessed, they literally have no empathy for those who get hurt. If anything, one can know that James Ray feels HE is being "victimized" in all of this.
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Narcissistic DSM IV Criteria
A pervasive pattern of grandiosity (in fantasy or behavior), need for admiration, and lack of empathy, beginning by early adulthood and present in a variety of contexts, as indicated by five (or more) of the following:
(1) has a grandiose sense of self-importance (e.g., exaggerates achievements and talents, expects to be recognized as superior without commensurate achievements)
(2) is preoccupied with fantasies of unlimited success, power, brilliance, beauty, or ideal love
(3) believes that he or she is "special" and unique and can only be understood by, or should associate with, other special or high-status people (or institutions)
(4) requires excessive admiration
(5) has a sense of entitlement, i.e., unreasonable expectations of especially favorable treatment or automatic compliance with his or her expectations
(6) is interpersonally exploitative, i.e., takes advantage of others to achieve his or her own ends
(7) lacks empathy: is unwilling to recognize or identify with the feelings and needs of others
(8) is often envious of others or believes that others are envious of him or her
(9) shows arrogant, haughty behaviors or attitudes
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Symptoms By Mayo Clinic staff
Narcissistic personality disorder symptoms may include:
Believing that you're better than others
Fantasizing about power, success and attractiveness
Exaggerating your achievements or talents
Expecting constant praise and admiration
Believing that you're special
Failing to recognize other people's emotions and feelings
Expecting others to go along with your ideas and plans
Taking advantage of others
Expressing disdain for those you feel are inferior
Being jealous of others
Believing that others are jealous of you
Trouble keeping healthy relationships
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buffmanThank you for all your excellent reporting on this subject, Anticult. I have been closely watching this tale unfold. Your work in organizing all the information on this thread is highly appreciated.
One thing I slightly disagree with is whether or not abusive guru types like James Ray have malicious motives or not, or even whether they are trained in coercive persuasion tactics. I think there is no question that Ray is using hundreds of such tactics, perhaps even in every sentence he utters---but is he doing it intentionally to harm others? Does he even know what he's doing, or is he just repeating his own indoctrination into coercive persuasion learned from other abusive LGAT's and cults? Abusive alcoholics are generally not trained in coercive persuasion, and yet are sure good at it given the right victim, and perhaps even learn such manipulative tactics from their own abusive parents.
Cedar Barstow, author of a book on ethics for therapists says on her website, "Far from being an automatic result of good intentions, right use of power must be learned and practiced. The ability to act sensitively, creatively, and effectively on behalf of others and oneself requires attention, skill, wisdom, and a lifetime interest in the impact of your uses of power." [
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While we may both agree that James Ray seemingly has no interest whatsoever in how his use of power might negatively impact others, he might also actually care for those who have died, or even have conflicting intentions. Intentions are often complex and contradictory, yet what we should judge him by in this case is not intent (which we can't truly know anyway) but impact---and clearly his impact is very negative and controlling, both psychologically and financially over the participants in his seminars.
Stanley Milgram's simple experiment in obedience just utilized a white lab coat, the position of authority of the psychologist, and a gentle prodding with the four simple phrases "Please continue," "The experiment requires that you continue," "It is absolutely essential that you continue," and "You have no other choice, you must go on." There were no complex and sophisticated tactics of psychological manipulation, yet most subjects gave what they thought were deadly shocks to the "learner": [
en.wikipedia.org] This experiment lead to the development of ethical standards in psychological research due to the extreme stress and trauma put on participants. Notably though, 84 percent of former participants surveyed later said they were "glad" or "very glad" to have participated---not unlike the ratio of satisfied LGAT participants after coerced to spend 10's of $1000's on workshops.
All someone would need to do to become the next manipulative LGAT leader is to go to existing LGATs and "play full on," then repeat what was done to them---like an abusive alcoholic continuing the cycle of abuse. But yes, James Ray has implemented such power games and manipulative tactics "full on," i.e. with utter ruthlessness and disregard for his seminar attendees. I went to Tony Robbins' UPW in 2003 and at that workshop decided I wanted to be a LGAT leader like Robbins. In many ways, I've spent the last 6 years deprogramming myself from that one manic seminar and the goal that was implanted there, and have been seeking out non-coercive methods of therapy and personal change since (which are unlikely to make anyone rich or famous, by the way).
I think perhaps evil is much more ordinary than that of the "evil genius" archetype, as Hannah Arendt argued in Eichmann in Jerusalem: A Report on the Banality of Evil. This thesis is perhaps even more disturbing than positing the existence of evil individuals who manipulate others with sophisticated tactics, for we need to guard not just against the handful of evil others, but also the tendencies towards control and coercision within ourselves, as well as structures of society that promote authoritarian control. If anything, we should fight for regulations on how self-help LGAT workshops can be conducted, especially with regards to long hours, sleep deprivation, breaks for food and bathroom use, and sales pitches for other workshops and products. And also continue to use our critical minds, especially to question people in positions of authority.
I should be clear that this is NOT justification for blaming the victims of James Ray or anyone else in any way whatsoever. Education about LGAT's, cults, and coercive persuasion is still a very important thing to prevent others from being victims of such abuses of power, and I will continue to do everything I can to educate others so that we can stop James Ray and other abusive guru types.
Edited 4 time(s). Last edit at 10/26/2009 05:51AM by The Anticult.