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A Life Interrupted: Remembering Kirby Brown
by Cathy Buchanan
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According to those who survived, the five-day workshop began with classroom work, after which the 60 participants were told to shave their heads in a symbolic gesture representing rebirth -- a new beginning. Kirby was hesitant, and held off on cutting her hair for a day, then gave in, cropping her long blonde locks close to the scalp. She may have been under pressure from Ray's staff and other participants to conform -- and to obey.
Following the head-shaving there was more classroom time where participants were encouraged to forego sleep because there was too much work to be done. They were encouraged to keep journals documenting their experience. Next came a 36-hour vision quest alone in the desert with no food, water or warm clothing – although participants were offered the opportunity to purchase a $250 poncho from Ray's staff, and this in addition to the $1300 they had paid for lodging. Ray did not participate in this event.
When the group returned from the desert, they played a game that seems to embody the atmosphere of the entire retreat In this game, Ray dressed in a white robe and declared himself God, while his “dream team” staff, dressed in black clothes and makeup, played the angels of death. Ray gave orders and if participants did not do precisely as instructed, the angels of death would “kill” them and they would be forced to lie motionless on the ground and pretend they were dead. At this point two women became fed up with Ray's decidedly unconventional techniques and quit the seminar. They had to fight with staff to be allowed to leave. Those that remained were treated to a meager buffet breakfast then asked to burn the journals they had been keeping. Kirby kept two journals. She burned one, and the other is currently in the hands of the Yavapai County Sheriff's Office as they are considering charging Ray with homicide for the events that would happen next.
According to Rick Ross, a noted expert on cults and controversial movements, Ray’s techniques were similar to those employed by cult leaders. “Sleep deprivation, diet and physical exhaustion apparently were components he used to break people down,” Ross told Baja Pulse. “Though I don't consider the Ray seminars a "cult," many of the calculated coercive persuasion techniques the self-help guru reportedly employed to manipulate people are in the same category of methodology frequently used by cult leaders,” Ross stated. “He appears to have used cult-like techniques to garner a devoted following and then exploit them for personal profit.”
Deathtrap
Ray's next move was to order his sleep-deprived, malnourished and dehydrated flock into a 400 square-foot sweat lodge cobbled together out of tarps and blankets. No building permits exist for said structure. Ray positioned himself by the door, the only place where fresh air could enter, in order to control who went in and out. Kirby sat near the back of the lodge, next to James Shore, a 40 year-old man from Milwaukee and Liz Neuman, a 49 year-old woman from Minnesota. None of them would survive. At intervals of 15 minutes rocks that were heated in a fire outside the sweat lodge were brought into the tent and water was poured over them. Soon temperatures inside the lodge reached upwards of 120 degrees. Anyone who asked to leave was chided and ridiculed by Ray, who encouraged other members of the group to ostracize them for being weak. As time dragged on and minutes turned into hours, conditions inside the lodge turned deadly. Ray seemed oblivious to the danger. People began to cry out to Ray, telling him that they couldn't breath. He suggested they dig into the dirt floor and take a breath from the dirt. Participants began vomiting, which Ray told them was all part of a spiritual purging process. Kirby's neighbor, Shore, managed to help some of those who were suffocating out of the tent, but eventually lost consciousness himself. During these moments Kirby was drawing her last breath. Survivors recall a traumatic scene of people stumbling out of the tent in a stupor and falling in the fire pit outside, burning themselves severely, yet still reentering the sweat lodge on Ray's orders.
When it became apparent that people were dead or dying, a 911 call was placed, but it would be 20 minutes before paramedics would arrive due to the remote location. Beverly Bunn, an orthodontist and Kirby's roommate during the seminar, tried to assist Ray's staff in reviving those who had lost consciousness.
"I told them about 10 times, 'I know CPR, I know CPR,” Bunn said in a heart-wrenching interview on national television. "They kept pulling me away and pulling me away,” she recounted as she broke into tears. Paramedics reportedly mistook the scene for that of an attempted mass suicide.
Ray seemed detached and didn't offer to help anyone, says former employee Melinda Martin "He came out and he stretched his arms up and everybody hosed him off and he's like, 'Hey thanks!'… and it really stopped me in my tracks. I just stopped, and I said, 'How can you walk out of there with all these people down, and they just looked near death, and you guys can walk out there looking like you just spent the day in the spa,'" Martin says.
Bunn concurs with Martin. “Ray pretty much abandoned all of us,” she says. “He left us there to figure out what was going on. After the incident he never came back."
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Liz Neuman a personal friend of Ray’s who had been on his “dream team”. Neuman suffered massive organ failure and lay in a coma for eight days, accruing a hospital bill in excess of $300,000 before she died on October 17. Ray never went to the hospital or contacted her family.
Ray did not contact Kirby’s family until five days after her death. He sent her parents a check for $5,000 . Kirby’s parents were appalled and the check remains uncashed
Kirby’s friend Lisa Brusseau blames Ray for Kirby’s death. “My husband and I were feeling (and still are) so angry and horribly sad about losing one of our very best friends. We felt compelled to try to make sure this person, James Arthur Ray, never again holds another seminar of any kind,” she told Baja Pulse. Brusseau, who owns buildings just down the street from Ray's corporate headquarters, had a series of banners made, which read “Be accountable James Arthur Ray. You were trusted by our friend Kirby Brown and now she and two others are dead.” Ray’s attorneys have contacted the Brusseaus requesting that the banners be taken down.
“When we learned that someone at the sweat lodge called out, 'We can't get her to move, she is not breathing' and James Ray's pathetic response was, ‘Leave her alone, we'll deal with her in the next round’, we knew this was a criminal event,” Brusseau states. “The Sedona sweat lodge incident was a gross negligence act on the part of James Arthur Ray fueled by his large, selfish ego. It is our great hope to see him behind bars and that he never makes another dime from devoted followers who could end up paying with their lives just as Kirby Brown, James Shore and Liz Neuman had to.”
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Living with Loss
Toward this end, the Brown family intends to create a foundation in Kirby’s honor to help regulate the self-help industry. The Brown family feels it is a matter of consumer protection. “Today, there is a guarantee for just about everything you pay for,” Ginny points out. “This does not currently extend to the self-help industry. People should be able to go on spiritual quests and not have their lives endangered.”
She is advocating proper training and background to conduct such seminars, as well as medical training and availability, especially when people are pushing their physical limits.” Ray reportedly had little more than a Tupperware box of band-aids and did not take medical histories of participants to insure that they were in good physical condition.
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To make a donation to the Kirby Brown Memorial events, or to support the foundation in her honor to regulate the self help industry, please got to www.kirbybrown.org
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Sunday, January 3, 2010
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