freedomofspeechmetoo# Wrote:
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> Hi Everyone,
>
> it took me months on end to finally dare to write
> here. I was in the group fairly active for about 6
> years and left recently, so I'm an 'enemy' so to
> speak. Now some trolls can get very busy ...
>
> I'm not going to write down my story because than
> it would be easy to guess who I am exactly. I know
> that's not very helpful but I have to protect
> myself.
>
> I listen to podcasts a lot, specially to Steven
> Hassan or Leah Remini and Mike Rinder, to Sensibly
> Speaking or to John Atack (all of which I can
> highly recommend) and it accured to me that
> although they are talking about scientology, many
> factors are true for DW, too. It would be
> interesting to know whether Nydahl ever studied
> the methods of scientology. For example in dw they
> often tell you that your unfortunate life
> situation (like when something bad happened to
> you) is just the result of your bad karma, you
> should suck it up and it is basically happening to
> you because u did that exact thing to someone
> else. The talk of karmic connections is written in
> capital letters in dw. As I found out, so it is in
> scientology. Also, getting sick is some karmic
> result, often cited by dw, as in scientology.
>
> We will probably never find out the truth about
> Nydahl or his sex addiction as he has gone insane
> in the last few years. I have personally witnessed
> it a couple of years ago. What one of you has
> written about the clapping like a small child is a
> standard procedure nowdays.
>
> Another aspekt I wanted to write about is that in
> general, dw is not dangerous ( apart from sucking
> your money out of your pockets) as long as your
> not one of the living in members in one of their
> so called centers. In the centre they do control
> member's lives, who they talk to, what they read,
> eat and they also have to work without being paid
> ( that's what they call charity I guess ... ) as
> well as charging living-in members for their
> rooms, food and laundry expenses. Not a lot but
> still. They have to pay to be able to live there
> and work for FREE for dw. They mostly don't want
> you to work full-time so you depend financially on
> the group after a while. You start to belive that
> you won't be able to make it outside. That that's
> all there is. What is that if not a cult?? They
> have weekly meatings, one for the whole sangha and
> one for just the house. They slag eachother off
> and courtmarshall for doing things which you are
> not supposed to do in dw.Very cultish, if you ask
> me. They also have their T-shirts on sale in which
> they parade at 'courses'and in their centers, some
> wear them privatly as well. By buying those you
> can enable dw projects all over the world, even
> some that never come to fruition. What then
> happens to the money, I ask? One of those t-shirts
> say: freedom of speech. If I look at what they did
> to people who dared to speak up against them, I
> get sick. Freedom of speech for whom??? Just for
> dw?? If you ask any intimidating questions about
> Nydahl they relatively quickly shut you up and
> tell you to leave. Or tell you some tale about how
> he is protecting them with his super powers and
> how he is enlightened. (whatever that means in
> their eyes...sleeping with as many women as
> possible in a lifetime?)
>
>
> I don't want to write so much about the group
> though, much more I'd discovered that it would be
> good for former survivors to be able to talk to
> each other.I think nobody wrote about that here
> till now. I might be wrong as I didn't read all
> the 184 pages through. I think there is nowhere
> really to turn to, here in Germany, cult survivors
> are quite a new phenomenon. I don't even know if I
> could explain what happened to me to a therapist.
> I just wanted to say that people like Tenzin
> Peljor are few and nobody listens to them.
> (unfortunately)
>
> I also know that it is very hard to speak up, as
> dw spends quite a lot of its money on shutting one
> up through its laweyrs. I guess keeping up
> appearences is where most of their charity money
> goes to, as they do not help any projects outside
> of dw.
>
> So, if anyone is interested in creating a group
> for survivors, please do so. It would be immense
> help. I think we, buddhists are in great need of
> finding our way out of different sick cults
> sprouting around in the west like mushrooms.
>
> I also wanted to share a link with you, it might
> be good to read for everyone:
>
> [
secularliturgies.wordpress.com]
>
> I am not a christian, I , even though what
> happened to me, consider myself a buddhist and
> wish so much that we could just go to any old
> buddhist community and listen to the teachings
> without running the danger of ending up in some
> cult.
>
> Wish you all, specially those who had it hard,
> that you get through the dark side of it. Have
> hope!
I was in the Ole Nydahl Diamond Way cult for just over 3 years, and certainly want to be speaking out or being involved with a survivors group.
I also had the same legal and in some cases physical threats but together we are strong!
I am making a podcast series for youtube and elsewhere if anyone else wants to speak out about the Diamond Way cult.