Jaim:
Yes, you are missing something, actually quite a bit.
My statement was about "ultra-Orthodox" not all Orthodox.
And this is not about "kids going in a direction completely different from the parents," but rather about one Jewish denomination or group targeting kids of another Jewish denomination for the purpose of recruitment.
Of course parents are unhappy about this. Any parent would be unhappy that their child had been targeted in such an organized proselytizing effort.
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www.culteducation.com]
It is true that most mainstream Orthodox Jews (e.g. OU) and Chasidic sects (e.g. Satmar) don't seem interested in targeting other Jewish kids for recruitment. And historically this type of proselytizing currently being done is largely without precedent.
What "recruitment efforts" are you specifically discussing that express the stated aim to "'free' young Orthodox Jews"?
I am only aware of efforts to support former ultra-Orthodox Jews that have already left various groups, but no effort by such support groups to specifically target practicing ultra-Orthodox Jews in an effort to "free" them.
In many of these situations ultra-Orthodox families have completely cut off their children that have decided to cease practicing as an active member of that group, and the secular support groups simply help the former members by offering support upon request.
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www.culteducation.com]
And also see [
www.culteducation.com]
This is not comparable to the proselytizing efforts previously discussed that target Jewish kids.