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at least do not expect gratitude right away.
Thank you corboy for this article! It explains to me my own behaviour, because I face troubles with Scientologists, only as one, who is not in this church. But I researched already a bit about that cult.
Some months ago I bought an apartment, not knowing that it is a CofS (short for Church of Scientology) company, and the house is ruled and in part inhabited by members of CofS. Since I live here, I (who rejected several "offers" e.g. for jobs or seminars, made to me by the company people) am offended, harassed, disrespected, dishonored, I was frauded of course, but that I could put on my own head - why did I trust those people? It is more than a fraud. Meanwhile it is kind of terror. I even do not know some of the people who act so strange against me.
There is mire of all kind in front of my door, my mail gets lost, that means, that strangers call me in the evening, that I should come to them and take my letter. Or my neighbour writes a note: "I have your letter. Do you want to receive it?" It are always important letters, business-ones or from friends. Often those, which are related to the house-managment. In the beginning I thought it is coincidentially and even apologized for the inconveniences.
And although that is only a very short version of all that happened (and happens) I somehow felt ever shy to speak to other neighbours, who are rather sure not members of CofS. Your article helped me to understand a bit, why.
There is an atmosphere of closeness, of hiding, I don't know, how to express.
I feel, that no one of the other inhabitants is really willing to get involved and by knowing, they would have to do something. I think they do not want to receive weird things. They prefer swallowing the fraud. I can understand that.
The post-officers are very concerned and they told me, that something really weird is going on in 2 houses of our street. I even then did not dare to talk about, what I think, that happens.
I am also afraid, that things will go worse now. In the last weeks it was quiet, since I put postings on the black board of the house, that mentioned [
www.xenu.net], a website for people, who want to leave the cult or get any info about it.
But yesterday was maybe the beginning of a new "handling" or so. Sometimes they (the handlings, I call them so) end in heavy threats against me. And then it is quiet again for a while. Then comes e.g. the next money-demand and when I ask that I want to see a bill at least, they do not show me. Just if I don't pay they send threatening letters from their lawyers. Then I pay always.
If anybody has any suggestions, about what should I do, I would be very thankful.
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If you warn people that a cult recruiter is operating in their area, do not expect straightforward gratitude. People are complex.
Make certain you're clear you are doing the right thing and provide information that can be fact checked. Because your efforts to educate the public will cause a surprising number of people to get mad at you.
That was what I feared. Great explanations! (':)')