Popping back with an example here, guru shunyamurti of sat yoga institute addressing an attendee who is clearly distressed (take note to take care before watching, be prepared) and being told that others suffering does not exist (aka, distressed attendee suffering presenting is an illusion, and what she is feeling due to the now lack of boundary is illusion) so not really a problem.
Shunya presents the issue of “rescuing” to the attendee, which is very often the case for majority in “healing” and “light work”, though he does not give her the actual antidote, which is enmeshment through lack of boundary - which he himself (as openly communicated) well read in many psychoanalytic works, would know about.
The distress is quickly dismissed. Shunya carries on in his student supported ashram lifestyle.
This is the type of shit we are all dealing with and told is for the greater good, the example given on how to treat our fellow humans.
In chakra teachings, an open heart side effect is the feeling of others feelings - both good and bad, which “allows” for healing of others to take place. Enmeshment is therefore masked in this way.
Edited 2 time(s). Last edit at 03/10/2021 10:26PM by facet.