Has anyone been shunned or 'ghosted'? How did you heal?
Posted by: corboy ()
Date: July 27, 2017 05:17AM

Has anyone been shunned or 'ghosted' by their sect, their healing group
or church?

How was it done?

How did you get through it?

What helped the most?

There is a variety of this that I term "strategic rejection".

Your guru or master or whatever picks up that you've lost enthusiasm
or are no longer malleable.

Instead of just kicking you out, the guru promotes you , makes you feel loved, wanted and right when you're feeling high as a kite -- you're kicked out right at the moment your heart is wide open.

Kicked out and with zero explanation.

Your real 'crime' might be that you were on the point of outgrowing the guru and leaving the group of your own volition.

Rather being glad that you've matured, the envious guru cannot allow you to
enjoy this. Perhaps this guru is someone who is narcissistically threatened
by any disciple who is reaching a level of healing that the guru has failed
to attain.

What better way to wound someone through this type of rejection so that
rather than freely leaving the guru, the victim is trapped in a cycle
of self recrimination and cannot access his or her actual maturity.

If you've been through this, examine whether you were progressing just before the guru set you up with praise and then kicked you out.

Have others who been kicked out with no explanation and shunned. Look for them. Social media is a godsend.

Compare stories. And consider the possibility that you were 86'd because you
outgrew the guru or just knew too much.

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Re: Has anyone been shunned or 'ghosted'? How did you heal?
Posted by: Leslie Read ()
Date: October 28, 2022 10:47AM

What got me through it?...Ultimately using my voice, which had been silenced (under threat) for a decade while I was isolated and witnessing my family be ripped apart.
Not an overnight transformation but a definitive one. Best wishes...



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