Re: my boyfriend brainwashed by pedophile please help
Date: November 28, 2011 07:05AM
It sounds like both of these guys (your boyfriend and the one in prison) are trouble. And when you are poor, as you say you are, the last thing you can afford is trouble. It doesn't sound like anything good can come out of this situation, on the contrary it has a great deal of potential to drag you down even more.
My advice? Start thinking about yourself. What do you want to do? Where do you see yourself in a few years? What is standing in the way? You haven't said anything about kids so I assume you don't have any or not any by this man. But if you are in a sexual relationship there is a chance you could become pregnant. What then?
You may think I am harsh, but I have seen a lot of poverty and I have seen a lot of really bad relationships, and I am no fan of either. I especially don't like to see people choosing to stay in poverty or a bad relationship when they have a chance to do something better with their lives.
You can do better than this situation. I'd say leave those two to each other, it sounds like they deserve each other anyway. And do you really want to get mixed up in a pedophile situation? That can rub off on you. And--if you have kids, do you really want them around a pedophile?
I think you already know the answer to what to do, you just need to have the courage to do it.