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Ton-arounds (pl. noun): Result of believing that the one with the most reversals wins, whether they make sense or not: "'I want my sister to shut up.' Okay, the opposite is 'I don't want my sister to shut up.' That's truer. I want her to do what she does if it makes her happy; I can just put in some ear plugs or go into the other room...and I like it when she talks sometimes, I have heard her say some interesting things...also someone might really need to hear what she has to say, even if it's not me...and it's possible that if she held it in she'd spontaneously combust. [..] Yeah, because my thinking thinks it knows what's right, and it keeps on thinking and it doesn't shut up; and it doesn't let me talk, and it doesn't let others talk, it just yammers on and on and on, you know?
[..]...and I believe people have the right to express themselves whether I want to hear it nor not. ...
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The Anticult
She is literally trying to get into the deepest part of your psyche, and FUSE WITH IT, using that hypnotic command, its very common stuff. She can get into the deepest part of your mind and "soul".
"Do you love me yet?" That is a presupposition and leading question, an outright ugly abuse of hypnotic language, to make you LOVE HER.
Anyone can go through the entire thing and pick it out, its not hard when written, much more difficult when spoken. Its just very basic UNCONSCIOUS PERSUASION using HYPNOTIC LANGUAGE patterns, quetions and commands .
Her simple goal?
TO MAKE YOU LOVE HER MORE THAN LIFE ITSELF.
Its hypnotic guru manipulation and abuse of love, very clear, and very common in that field of cultic Guruship.
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jj52
After going through the blog and picking out what I saw off the bat... I was able to quiet all those emotions-- to break the spell, so to speak. I realized only after doing that how severely I had been manipulated/hypnotized by that blog.
My picking it apart can be found here: [forum.culteducation.com]
Anticult, I know that you and others can spot this stuff more readily, so please be patient with me.
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The Anticult
She is literally trying to get into the deepest part of your psyche, and FUSE WITH IT, using that hypnotic command, its very common stuff. She can get into the deepest part of your mind and "soul".
"Do you love me yet?" That is a presupposition and leading question, an outright ugly abuse of hypnotic language, to make you LOVE HER.
Anyone can go through the entire thing and pick it out, its not hard when written, much more difficult when spoken. Its just very basic UNCONSCIOUS PERSUASION using HYPNOTIC LANGUAGE patterns, quetions and commands .
Her simple goal?
TO MAKE YOU LOVE HER MORE THAN LIFE ITSELF.
Its hypnotic guru manipulation and abuse of love, very clear, and very common in that field of cultic Guruship.
This makes so much sense to me right now, Anticult.
The first time I read her blog entry about the cancer, I felt bugged... strange... couldn't quite put my finger on it. The next thing I knew, I was feeling really put-off and offended... like I'd just been slapped in the face. Then, I went through some serious sadness and guilt-- feeling guilty for calling her a cult-leader when she's got cancer-- and feeling just plain sorry for what she's going through... even though I know she will "love" it. I started feeling protective of her, but only for a few minutes... then I felt angry and guilty for feeling anything for her at all-- for not being more accepting of it like she seems to be. I doubted myself for feeling anything but happy about it, and felt guilty--like maybe I was insensitive and cold-- for not feeling more.
It was like being on a rollercoaster, and all the time... there was an underlying feeling of utter confusion. I couldn't understand why this even mattered so much at all to me now? I realize that this is the result of the mind control from the School... it still affects me and twists things around so strangely.
I repeat to anyone reading this: This is what you have to look forward to after Byron Katie's School. Utter turbulence inside of yourself.
After going through the blog and picking out what I saw off the bat... I was able to quiet all those emotions-- to break the spell, so to speak. I realized only after doing that how severely I had been manipulated/hypnotized by that blog.
My picking it apart can be found here: [forum.culteducation.com]
Anticult, I know that you and others can spot this stuff more readily, so please be patient with me. It has a powerful affect on me, I guess because I was so tuned into to this Katie-speak crap for awhile... and so controlled by it. Thanks for sharing what you see going on. It helps... it really, really helps.
I'm hoping to get my hands on some of these books being mentioned. Thanks everyone!
-jj
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Well, I did a search on Google for "Byron Katie blogs" to see what would come up. I found several blogs kept by Byron Katie followers. I also searched for "facilitator Byron Katie" ...
They make ebooks, and some have even written books of their own. Life coaches, business coaches, and even one who calls himself a "Stress Relief Educator". That's just a fancy title for "I have no credentials, but I've been brainwashed to sell you The Work somehow... and I want money."
(This website is a riot! It's like a Byron Katie mini-me. [www.mikebiskup.com])
You can even find facilitators who will charge you for The Work... who are massage therapist and bodyworkers. That means they are expressly forbidden by law to counsel anyone. But, like their mentor... credentials and the law mean very little.
This may not be news to anyone here. And, it may not even be interesting. But, it seemed like a good way to mention blogs, facilitators, and Byron Katie all at once.
I found nothing interesting, shocking, or important on the blogs or websites of the facilitators of The Work of Byron Katie.
Ta-da!
-jj
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The Anticult
Well, if you spend time studying, LGATs, persuasion, cults, mind control, hypnosis, and all that stuff it starts to make sense. Then when you see a Byron Katie or her people running their PATTERNS and TECHNIQUES right in your face, and acting like its "true" or "not true" etc, you just shake your head and can't believe people can fall for it.
But if you don't know the techniques, they are invisisble.
But once you know them, its unbelievably obvious.
Look at these photos of Byron Katie.
[images.google.com]
They are all carefully posed, Photoshopped, and everything else, and in each one she is STARING RIGHT INTO YOUR EYES LIKE A HYPNOTIST of LOVE-BOMBING from a comedy movie!! Its so blatant, its hilarious to the trained eye. The CLOSE-UPS of the EYES for folks to get BONDED to and PROJECT on. Show that to any basic hypnotist, and he will start to laugh his ass off. She looks like she is doing LOVE MESMERISM, as a parody.
But sadly, it seems those she targets are NICE PEOPLE, who are just too trusting and "too nice", and seem to always be the ones getting hurt.
Her written TEXT is even more blatant the the photos.
And her voice...oye vie! The patterns, the hook, the Voice-Cues...
So I guess all I am saying is folks should consider doing some SERIOUS self-education in this stuff. The web is free, and its all there. Its all HERE.