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Cathleen Mann, PhD
If Brian has not read Steve's book, how can he comment on it? This seems like a diversionary tactic to me. Unfortunately, I've read the book carefully three times. Before I defend or criticize something, I think it's important to read it first. Otherwise, I'm just commenting on my experience with the person, which is rather arbitrary unless I spend a lot of time with that person. Brian has also posted on another site as FOMResearcher stating that I just don't like Steve Hassan. Really, is that so? Steve is overdue for criticism for some of the outlandish claims he makes in his books, in interviews, and on his website. You can not testify or talk about the character of someone that you have not interacted with substantively, and I don't mean as an employee or political "friend". If I really wanted to get personal with Steve, there's a lot more I can say but haven't. I am providing an expert review of his latest book to someone who self proclaims himself as an expert. However, Hassan's pattern is to elicit support through third parties. I encourage Hassan to counter any of the elements of my review...but by him, not some follower or third party.
Indeed. There is plenty those of us who know him could have said about him, but we are refraining from doing so and sticking to professional issues. Since Steve is responding privately to others regarding his critics (according to the posting by Brian Birmingham, who apparently works for him) we have no way of knowing what kind of allegations he is making about us behind our backs. This is quite sleazy behavior, in my opinion, not unlike the sort of behavior I have witnessed in some cultic groups I am familiar with where triangulation occurs and allegations are made outside the presence of the one being accused.
In contrast, Cathleen Mann has been more than fair, as she has openly stated her criticisms, giving Hassan the opportunity to respond, yet he declines to do so publicly (other than communication through Brian Birmingham) and instead goes behind her back, offering to give private responses where he can say whatever he chooses to without fear of being refuted or challenged. If his "responses" are anything like some of the others I have knowledge of, I believe he may likely be engaging in personal smears, saying we are unrecovered ex-cult members or maybe even cultists or perhaps even other unsubstantiated personal allegations. It would seem that those of us who challenge him get that label, rather than any kind of substantive rebuttal.
I too find it interesting that Brian has not even read Steve's book. It would seem that he has a very strong faith in Mr. Hassan that has little to do with the substance of what is in his book, which he defends without ever having read.
I have a suggestion for Mr. Hassan. How about issuing a public, substantive rebuttal, rather than talking or emailing behind the backs of your critics? After all, as you like to point out, if what you are saying is correct, the truth should hold up to public scrutiny.