Yes the Jeremy Kyle videos are quite a laugh and I'm sure that what didn't make it to air would be an amazing yet sickening testament to Dave McKay's ego without cause. He came off looking like such a loser on that program, he must want to weep each time it's rebroadcast and lately it's been rebroadcast almost bi weekly.
Then there is McKay’s continued affection for his mentor, David Berg of the Children of God cult but McKay must know Berg would be ridiculing McKay’s pitiful number of supporters---with 6 (?) leaving recently, I understand, he must be feeling pretty rejected and this could be the root cause for his breakdowns on his forum. Berg would have had that number of girls and more at one time, “flirty fishing” on just a couple streets. Despite Dave holding fast to Berg’s letter to him for so many years, McKay must know Berg would not be impressed with Dave’s fiascos and embarrassments. Berg would be ridiculing him as an obscure failure to launch.
Roland and Sue Gianstephanie recently had the good sense to forsake McKay and mark the end of an era as Roland was one of McKay’s most trusted lieutenants. Sue showed a willingness to sacrifice almost all for McKay, giving him 20 plus years of her life and 1 kidney but when it came to actually forsaking her son’s right to a normal life, in the end she refused McKay and she took her husband, Roland with her and their son. It appears another failure for McKay.
The Quakers didn't want McKay. The Catholics didn't want him. The media ignores him. No wonder he needs to throw his weight around on his forum, dreaming that the masses are reading his brilliance when in reality, he has one desperate housewife who seems to be camped on his forum because her name is there any time I take a look at the circus.
I also find it revolting how McKay seems to throw the mental illness stigma at others yet he seems unable to stand back and actually view his own instability. He has given the label of mental illness to his one groupie, the one who last month was making her videos tying McKay to terrorist activities. Despite the way he treats her with arms length contempt and he continues to post that he finds her difficult to believe in many cases, it seems she does serve some purpose to him as it gives him someone to talk to.
Both of them, self important ghouls, who enjoy creating hysterical plots they pretend to uncover, then playing the victim and threatening legal action against the same freedom of speech that they both take full advantage of, except they are not quoting people's posts or providing proof, they are just using their wild imaginations to slander people wantonly.
After you do some reading on the Jesus Christian forum, take a look at this online book. [
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To quote this book~~~
The narcissist does his damnedest to avoid intimacy. He constantly lies about every aspect of his life: his self, his history, his vocations and avocations, and his emotions. This false data guarantee his informative lead, asymmetry, or "advantage" in his relationships. It fosters disintimisation. It casts a pall of cover up, separateness, mystery over the narcissist's affairs....................
The narcissist, it seems, is still the hurt child. His attitude serves a paramount need: not to be hurt again. The narcissist anticipates his abandonment and, by trying to avoid it, he precipitates it. Maybe he does it to demonstrate that – having been the cause of his own abandonment – he is in sole and absolute control of his own relationships.............
To be in control – this unconquerable drive – is a direct reaction to having been abandoned, ignored, neglected, avoided, smothered, or abused at an early stage in life. "Never again" – vows the narcissist – "If anyone will do the leaving, it will be me."
The narcissist is devoid of empathy and incapable of intimacy with others as well as with himself. To him, lying is a second nature. A False Self takes over. The narcissist begins to believe his own lies. He makes himself to be what he wants to be and not what he really is.
To the narcissist, life is a jumbled amalgam of "cold" facts: events, difficulties, negative externalities, and predictions and projections. He prefers this "objective and quantifiable" mode of relating to the world to the much-disdained "touchy-feely" alternative. The narcissist is so afraid of the cesspool of negative emotions inside him that he would rather deny them and thus refrain from knowing himself.
The narcissist is predisposed to maintaining asymmetric relationships, where he both preserves and exhibits his superiority. Even with his mate or spouse, he is forever striving to be the Guru, the Lecturer, the Teacher (even the Mystic), the Psychologist, the Experienced Elder.
The narcissist never talks – he lectures. He never moves – he poses. He is patronising, condescending, forgiving, posturing, or teaching. This is the more benign form of narcissism. In its more malignant variants, the narcissist is hectoring, humiliating, sadistic, impatient, and full of rage and indignation. He is always critical and torments all around him with endless, bitter cynicism and with displays of disgust and repulsion.
There is no way out of the narcissistic catch: the narcissist despises the submissive and fears the independent, the strong (who constitute a threat) and the weak (who are, by definition, despicable).
Asked to explain his lack of ability to make contact in a true sense of the word, the narcissist comes up with a host of superbly crafted explanations. These are bound to include some "objective" difficulties, which have to do with the narcissist's traits, his history and the characteristics of his environment (both human and non-human).
The narcissist is the first to admit the difficulties experienced by others in trying to adapt or relate to him. To his mind, these difficulties make him unique and explain away the gap between his grandiose theories about himself – and the grey, shabby pattern that is his life (the Grandiosity Gap). The narcissist has no doubt who should adapt to whom: the world should adjust itself to the narcissist's superior standards and requirements (and, thus, incidentally, transform itself into a better place).
Inevitably, the sexuality of the narcissist is as disturbed as his emotional landscape...................
Moreover, he prefers sex with objects or object representations. Some narcissists prefer masturbation (objectifying the body and reducing it to a penis), group sex, fetish sex, paraphilias, or paedophilia to normal sex.............
So, he feels inadequate, frustrated, and, consequently, fearful that he might be abandoned. He transforms this internal turmoil into deep-seated aggression. Once in a while the conflict reaches critical levels and the narcissist has fits of rage, emotionally deprives the partner, or humiliates her/him. Acts of violence – verbal or physical – are not uncommon...................
It is this sorry paradox – the narcissist is the instrument of his own punishment – that comprises the essence of narcissism. The narcissist is Sisyphically doomed to repeat the same cycle of pretension, wrath and hatred...........
The narcissist is either terrified by the thought of children or absolutely fascinated by it. A child, after all, is the ultimate Source of Narcissistic Supply. It is unconditionally adoring, worshipping and submissive. But it is also a demanding thing and it tends to divert attention from the narcissist. A child devours time, energy, emotions, resources, and attention. The narcissist can easily be converted to the view that a child is a competitive menace, a nuisance, utterly unnecessary...................
No explanation required with regards to McKay.