Hi everyone. Dave made a response on his forum, to a post that I made on this forum about gimmicks. In it I use old emails from Dave in an effort to show how contradictory he is of himself. I'll post it below if anyone is interested. --Xenophone.
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Dave
Just updating people on what is happening on the RR forum...James has given a lengthy summary (not very accurate in places, but fair enough for the point being made, both by him and by me in this post) of several attempts I made over several years to get members of the community thinking more for themselves, and not being so dependent on me. What is most startling about all of this, is that the conclusion he comes to is that those efforts were really an effort by myself to do exactly the opposite, i.e. to rob people of their freedom. Kind of defies logic that a leader seeking only to control people would experiment with so many different approaches to leadership, autonomy, communication, etc. in an effort to develop MORE independence, MORE initiative, and MORE creative thought on the part of members of the community.
It doesn't defy logic. I'm saying that you want to give people the impression that they are free to make their own choices, so you give them some pretense of autonomy, yet a short while later you make suggestions and efforts to regain your control over them. Your aim is to leave your followers with a false sense that they free to follow God, while you still keep them under your thumb. It's like the "plastic peace" period you wrote about in Survivors. My point in all this is not that it's wrong for you to give freedom to your followers, but that don't let it continue. You don't mean it.
Don't you find it odd how quickly these "experiments" as you call them ended up no different than before? And I'd like to add that they were not "experiments". Maybe thats what they were to you, but I can tell you that we were under the impression that they were actual movements, and your communications to us testified to this. More on that later.
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So what I noticed each time that we tried an experiment with more freedom is that those people who were just malcontents used them as an excuse to leave. In fact, if there was a "trick" in what we were doing with autonomy, that was it: i.e. that we were trying to trick them into leaving. I came right out and said it... several times.
Um, if it was just a trick by you to get some of us to leave, then why did you fight and argue so furiously with us during our falling-out period? Why didn't you just let us go? To me it's obvious that you didn't want us to leave, but were fighting to get us to further conform to your will.
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Annette used autonomy to create a community in L.A. where everyone went off to work except herself, and where her kids were always given special treatment. As she has just pointed out on the Rick Ross forum, she then tried to enlist other members of the community in a campaign against me, and when it backfired, she took her kids and left. She accused me of cheating on the autonomy that had been granted to the community in L.A. simply because I talked to the members who were being abused by her.
James had no such ambitions. He was just lazy from the word go. So autonomy always meant to him, a chance to slack off and do nothing, and he hints at that in his report of the history of autonomy in the community. We actually had to give him and his wife about ten thousand dollars and instructions not to communicate with anyone for a few months before he had enough courage to do what he had been wanting to do for a very long time, which is to just more or less do nothing.
Did you ever think that the reason some of us chose to use our "freedom" to do other things was because we didn't share [i:c58d58875b]your[/i:c58d58875b] vision of selling box after box of Survivors day-in-day-out? Don't you find it odd that almost everyone chose to distribute less when you gave them that option? And it's not like we used our "freedom" to sit on the couch and eat chips; some of us decided to improve our mechanic skills, some of us chose to focus more on educating their children, and some of us chose to spend more time improving relationships with their spouses (like me).
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But something autonomy was never meant to do was to destroy the spiritual unity that exists between the various communities. Even the experiment with not communicating between bases for several months was declared to be temporary from the start. Only James thought it meant that there could never be any communication between the teams.
Again you state that it was an "experiment", and state that it was agreed upon that we wouldn't communicate for several months. This was not the case.
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This unity which persists despite breaking up into independent groups is what angers Rick and his little rickettes, because the requirement for "membership" in their community is simply that people hate Dave. We Jesus Christians all agreed (a couple of months before James left) not to communicate with each other for a few months, so that people would have a greater chance to make decisions based on their own experience. I said at the start that I expected some people (and I had James and his wife in mind when I said it) would use the freedom to leave. That was fine. It was worth the financial lost just to be rid of the dead wood.
You further push your "experiment" angle, and state that we all agreed that we would not communicate for a few months. Lets look at what you actually said. The following italicised and unterlined text is from letters that you, Dave sent as the community was in the process of splitting.
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[u:c58d58875b][i:c58d58875b] I haven't thought this through completely, but I was thinking that if we tallied up all of our assets (books, vehicles, and cash mostly) and then divided it evenly amongst all of our members, and then people kind of paired up in groups of two (or on their own if anyone wants to do it that way), [b:c58d58875b]then we just all go our separate ways, maybe even with the understanding that we WON'T be communicating with each other any more... at least not for a very long time.[/b:c58d58875b] [/i:c58d58875b][/u:c58d58875b]
From: Dave Mckay Sept 24, 2005.
So we would go our way maybe with the understanding that we won't communicate at all, and if we do deside to communicate, to won't be for a very long time. True you are being suitibly vague with your time frame, but what impression does this give you? Certainly more than a few months. Besides, even if that's what we did agree on, it was less than two months from when we split to when you started demanding that we share our budget details with you.
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[u:c58d58875b][i:c58d58875b]It is important, however, for people to realise that they should not be trying to prove anything to the rest of the community, that the community as we know it now simply will not continue to exist. It's why I feel we need to almost take the attitude that we will not hear from each other again after the break-up occurs. [/i:c58d58875b][/u:c58d58875b]
From: Dave Mckay Sept 25, 2005.
More of the same. We are to live as though we won't hear from each other again.
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[u:c58d58875b][i:c58d58875b]Someone mentioned the idea of us just breaking up for a year and then coming back together again. It may take some time for the vision I am trying to communicate to sink in (and very possibly it never will), but from my perspective, any attempt to make the split up temporary will only result in people focussing on the day when we all come back together again, and Dave hands out report card marks on how well we each have performed. Can you see how this totally negates the idea of people actually becoming charismatic eaders, and getting their orders straight from the top?[/i:c58d58875b][/u:c58d58875b]
From Dave Mckay Sept 26, 2005.
This paragraph really sums up what the split was supposed to be about. It was not supposed to be something temporary, and certainly not an experiment. You blatantly state that the split was not temporary, and that we would not come together again. That was the whole idea of the Kenya team (the Jesus Christians) being seperate from the rest of us as we went our individual ways to be autonomous teams. And how has that turned out? Have any of the members switched to different bases? Have any of them joined the Kenyan base? Have you suggested any collaberation between you base and any autonomous teams?
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It really is tragic that the same people who belly ache about being kicked out (or about being THREATENED with being kicked out) of the Jesus Christians are the same ones who tell us that they were disgruntled for a long time, and that they imagine everyone else is disgruntled and secretly wants to leave. [b:c58d58875b]C'mon, guys, you can't have it both ways.[/b:c58d58875b] If you really wanted out so badly, and if you're so happy now, then what is all the fuss about? Surely others will do the same thing as you if/when they decide they want to leave too. And if they don't, we'll probably arrange some enticement that will make it easier for them to leave.
I find this statement in bold to perfectly fit how I see your gimmicks. You can't encourage people to work in freedom from you and then get angry with them when they don't make themselves accountable to you. I'm not at all surprised that you ended up responding to me when I was directing my post to Fran.