Re: Landmark/est and bipolar spectrum disorder
Date: July 19, 2008 01:01AM
Let me start by saying that MANY OF my relatives (and not just my immediate family) have genetic predispositions towards both bipolar and unipolar (sometimes called 'clinical') depression. As such, I've truly been one of the lucky ones in my Family to have only had brief tastes of mild versions of both -- like a 'Preview of Coming Attractions' if I didn't change course, somehow. It scared the piss out of me, too, for by THAT time I'd seen full blown cases of both disorders in my family -- and I SURE didn't want to go THERE! At the risk of sounding repetitious, I feel so freakin' fortunate that I never had to go onto a regimen of Lithium or Prozac in order to be a happy and productive member of society. My Sister and some of my Kin were not so lucky.
And now I more fully realize how I was playing with fire when taking est 30+ years ago -- not knowing the difference between bipolar disorder and a polar bear at the time. It wasn't until I read scads of posts to this LGAT forum (PLUS watching Nettie's videos) that I began to see any parallels between the one truly scary hypo-manic episode I endured and the happier 3 week est-high I floated around with after the training. That's not to claim that they were mirror images of one another, but now I do see uncomfortable parallels.
It leads me to speculate that the life events just preceding Werner's "Golden Gate" transformation may have quite possibly been stressing HIM to the brink of hypo-mania, and that his realizations on the bridge officially landed him into that state of mind as well. What a surrealistically bizarre notion it is to speculate that Werner and his pals might've actually been looking for a way to simulate Werner's own path into hypo-mania when they put the training together. Anyway, that's merely my current 'working hypothesis,' but its an interesting one, don't ya think?
Well, genetic predispositions towards mania DO mean that the disorder lies dormant unless sufficiently triggered, and lots of things can trigger it. As an example, read some of Jane Pauley's book. In her case, a year of steroidal treatments for a bad case of hives triggered the disease. Given that, it sure isn't any stretch to imagine that doing the Danger Process/Fear Exercise at 1:30 in the morning can also trigger hypo-mania in some people genetically pre-disposed. Damn good thing for me that I couldn't quite get into the fear & screaming others sounded like THEY were feeling as we were lying on the floor. I might've come out of there hypo-manic after only the 1st HALF of the training.
Another thing that I have seen happen is what LGAT trainings can do 'for' people who already know that they're bi-polar. In this case, they can come out feeling so good, or just so freed-up, that they convince themselves that they don't need their lithium anymore, and then graduate right into the biggest manic episode of their lives up to that point. That happened to a friend of mine right after the training, who then went on a bizarre manic tear while not needing a lick of sleep for six days until he crashed. That put him into a state of more rapid up-cycling over the next few years, and during this time he married another bipolar est graduate, and the two would proceed to cycle-up in tandem. (I'll bet their sex-lives were interesting at those times -- she was a hottie -- and it probably kept him occupied screwing whereas without her, he might've gone out on violent rampages. Unfortunately, they both came to a tragic, manic end when they both cycled-up and took off in their car for San Francisco. I read about them in the national news after that, as they robbed a liquor store and were chased down by the police. In the end, he shot & killed a cop, then turned the gun on his wife and then on himself.
My Sister is another story. She is still alive, but that life is pretty much in ruins (and there, but for the Grace of God, go I). Ironically, she turned to est looking for help AFTER her 1st hypo-manic episode, not quite sure what it was she'd just come out of, and not knowing what est could potentially do TO her. Well, she graduated with 3 - 4 weeks of a more pleasant version of what she endured six months prior, interpreted that as being cured, and then went back for every danged course they offered to try and recapture that -- more 'Zen-like' (not)-- high. Then when est morphed into the Forum, she took that and really started going over the deep end. She became convinced that she was trainer material and started interviewing for paid staff positions at est. But by then, the company could tell she was really nuts, and of-course they never hired her for anything. In fact, she became radioactive to them (but then, that's how they respond to people who's brains they have fried). With that level of rejection she felt from them, during subsequent, more rapid cycling manic episodes she'd convince herself that Werner was even in love with her. She started seeing patterns in the TV video 'snow' late at night (when stations used to go off the air after 2 AM or so), telling her that Werner was calling for her to come join him, and as a couple they would go around the world transforming the planet together.
For a number of reasons, I ultimately had to cut off communication with her, and when it finally sank in to her mind that I'd truly 'cut the cord,' she called me up at 3 AM during her next manic episode and actually threatened my life. The epilogue to that sad saga was that I had her served with a protective order to try and protect my Family and myself FROM her.
Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 07/19/2008 01:13AM by pauker.